Traditionally, a man is expected to go through school, become a businessman at a company, receive standard promotions at set periods in his life, marry and have children at some point, and work himself to the bone providing for his family until he becomes old enough to retire.

The media depicts masculinity as an ideal wrapped up in battle as well as a strong adherence to a moral code and loyalty.

They're similar, but one of them involves a lot more bloodshed and autonomy.